However, if you're like most people the answers you have come up with are: I want to lose weight. I want more money. I want a better job. I want a partner. I want to be a better friend. I want to be more active. I want to start my own business. I want to be a better parent. Many of you may even be wondering how I read your mind! We ALL want the same things out of life. We all have the same struggles. But what sets the achievers apart from the rest are CLEARLY DEFINED goals, or wants. So, we're going to take your wants and redefine them. We're going to make them more specific and measurable! You can't achieve anything unless you really understand what it is you're trying to do. For example, if Ford wants to build a car that goes fast, they must define what fast is. Is it 60 MPH; is it 80 MPH or is it 120 MPH? I'm no design engineer but I AM sure the engineering specifications are different for each differing rate of speed.

As promised, this month I'm changing the focus of my series slightly from how to get the job you want to how to get anything you want!! Listen I ain't no expert but I do know what I am looking for and I have explored techniques for learning to value yourself and for determining what it is you really want based upon your dreams and your talents. So now that you know how truly incredible you are and now that you know what you want, we're going to redefine it. "Redefine it?'' some of you are asking for big cocks . "Why? This is what I want!" you are saying, or thinking. And it probably is. Wellthen, lets see!!